Inspired by the first and latest profile picture fad on
Facebook, I decided to pull mine and I felt drawn to tell younger me a few
things. Maybe these things would be helpful to you. I hope I have learned
something along the way!
Dear Younger Me,

Cut yourself as much slack as you bestow to
others. Self-criticism dished out in heaping spoonfuls does not motivate you to
change. Comparison to others or some ideal only leaves you wanting to be more. Acceptance
of yourself always seems just a little beyond your grasp. When I look into your
younger eyes I see that urge to be more… I know the road you will travel, and I
want to tell you that you are already enough.
Embrace the chances you have to really get to
know others. Enjoy that others trust you with their secrets knowing you are
trustworthy. Also, continue to pull back when you have had enough to rejuvenate
with just you and God. Older you tends to forget how important that really is.
I know you can’t imagine it but it won’t be long
until your children will be grown and doing their own thing. If there is
anything older you wishes for, it would be a few more minutes to hold a small
hand, play a game, or to teach a valuable life skill. Again, treasure the
moment.
Know that you are loved, not just in a casual
way, but in a way that really matters. As you learn to love your children
through hard times when they need your unconditional love and forgiveness, you
glimpse a tiny portion of just how completely you are loved by your heavenly
father. Imagine him delighting over you with a song of your praise, not with a
pen and tally sheet recording your deeds. Know that nothing you could ever do
could separate you from the love of God.
Love,
Older
Me
These thirteen years should have caused wrinkles galore with
all of the hardships they brought. And yes, I have earned a few that show
clearly, but overall I think that I was shielded by grace from much that my troubles
could have caused. I also believe that my genetic makeup has helped. Maybe a
little of my mom’s Oil of Olay mentality rubbed a few of them away, and Lord
knows hair dye is a must! I can’t help but wonder what the next ten years will
look like but I think I will take my own advice and try to be present in the
moment. I will try and show myself more grace. I will value my friendships and
take time for myself. Mostly, I will rest in knowing that I am completely
loved!